Archive for April, 2010

I have found a new name for me! Sapiosexual

One who finds intelligence the most sexually attractive feature.
“I want an incisive, inquisitive, insightful, irreverent mind. I want someone for whom philosophical discussion is foreplay. I want someone who sometimes makes me go ouch due to their wit and evil sense of humor. I want someone that I can reach out and touch randomly. I want someone I can cuddle with.

I decided all that means that I am sapiosexual.”

“I am sapiosexual. I think geeks and nerds are sexy–I often want to rub my clit against their minds.” -Kayar Silkenvoice

Thank you Urban Dictionary!

I just have to share…there is new place that I am exploring that would have a trail left behind me as soon as I can make sense… or perhaps this is where I give myself permission to not make sense… just sense, share what I feel, what I am writing and learning, what is coming to me in the most intense waves…

This is where we know that the blood work is so deeply connected to the sexual being of a woman… release this part of her, and you release her libido, her passion, her desire centers go off!

Erotic Earth is brewing deeply… come along and play!


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Just speaking with my new house-mate as to the possibility of a shared vision. I was honoured to be a part of a powerful expression of women earlier this year. Womb Awareness Week was an awesome set of moments, process of a group of women that simply wanted to “make more room for the womb”.  In our hearts, our minds, our bodies. The offering by Grace and Kate, the originators of this intention, was so gently held, so softly, as a precious thing to consider by any of us that came to the centre of this place.  From inception to delivery, just 3 months. From two and then three a conversation that then opened to about 12-15 of us at the core, another 30 to the circle that surrounded that and there was about 200-250 touched by the whole experience. How we did it is of great interest to me, for it was such a deliciously inclusive and gently power filled process that I know to be at the core of how we can generate the action that follows the vision.

Following the energy. Feeling for what is possible amongst a group of people. The resonance of what the world at large can perceive. We hit walls, we found ways around, we made commitments that we couldn’t keep, we trusted the process, we fell short of what we knew we were worth, we created something out of nothing in the most organic way that I have ever had the privilege to participate in. We aren’t the first group of humans to be in love with something so much you want to share it… from the steam engine appreciation groups to the racist fascists, with what ever intensity or content there is, we  as humans want to share our passions. How we share often dictates the feel of the event.

Tis this place of offering that I feel has worth of further investigation. When I look to that which I offer, the work that I do, the moments of StarFire that I share that are deeply changing the way women menstruate, I know that it is from a deep love that I have of my own body and the way that I bleed that fuels this continuous offering…  How have I got here? To this place where I am so sure that what I know, what I feel is to be possible for another.  It has become almost a crime of self to not keep making my offering, further, wider, shifting my language so that it can be comprehended by a wider audience, finding new and clear ways to say what I have been saying. I have to… seems that’s the only way I can honour this passion, to make an offering…

What passion moves you? What do you offer?

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